These celebrities,
you are proving by the day that being married is not meant for you guys at all,
so why waste all that money and peoples’ time in having weddings when at the
end of the day, they start crashing as soon as it’s started? I don’t get it.
I don’t know
how authentic this is but then I read in one of the Nigerian dailies, the
Vanguard a while ago that Mr. Tunji Balogun a.k.a Tee Billz Husband of the ‘kele
kele’ love crooner, Tiwa Savage, had earlier this Thursday morning sent a number of posts on Instagram which has sent
tongues wagging all over the place.
According to
the report, the posts alleged that Tee Billz is on a contemplation of either
ending his marriage to Tiwa Savage or commit suicide as he is “so sick of pretending that everything is
alright, because it’s not”. At that point I am wondering when did this
trend of ‘wanting to commit suicide’ start in Nigeria. In the past, you only
hear about such happenings abroad but not in Nigeria. It was RARE! Now all of a
sudden, you hear of how one man or woman took his/her life for one issue or the
other. Haba!
Nigerians
are known to be tough skinned/hearted people who can withstand any situation,
so what happened? If you think on the contrary, look at the situation we are in
at the moment in the country, a lot of us are still believing ‘when there is
life there is hope’ slogan as we are still on the hustle lane and making the
best of the situation. We still find time to make jokes out of the whole
serious and even life threatening situations all around us. In fact, the whole
world should be giving Nigeria a standing ovation as the country with the
highest number of ‘egbe wedgers’ that is ‘strong people’ as the typical Edo/Bini
man would simply put it.
I also gathered
from the paper that part of Tee Billz post read “I hope the f**king in Tiwa Savage brand brings you peace. I used my
money, soul and everything I had for you and everyone knows how I hustled hard
with passion for you to get to where you are today. You will find peace with
your career”. Then trust Nigerians to be quick in replying when it comes to
such issues.
One person’s
reply caught my attention and it said “such
a shame!! That’s why my pastor says that choosing your life partner is the
greatest career choice you will ever make!!!! More like the greatest life
choice one will ever make.
I kinda
agreed with that reply to an extent as it got me thinking. But then again, the
truth is you can never get it ALL right no matter how smart/tactical you are or
how long it takes you to eventually choose a LIFE partner. It takes God and
sometimes ‘Luck’ to get somebody near perfect, but trust me; you can NEVER get
a perfect person because on our own, we aren’t perfect as well, so why do you
expect a perfect partner?
Please don’t
get it twisted, I am not taking sides with either parties *I WILL NEVER DO THAT*. The thing is, ‘ALL MARRIAGES HAVE ISSUES
EVERY NOW AND THEN’ but it is how the issues are handled that matters. It is
not a matter of saying “I’m sorry I must
have disappointed you guys. I just don’t have the strength to fight this battle
anymore. May God forgive me and accept
my soul in peace”. If you asked me Tee Billz, I would say “that’s trash’.
You will
not disappoint anybody but yourself if you don’t get your acts together and
stand like the man you are. Doing anything silly would confirm the many rumours
of the past that you were truly intimidated by the fame and success of your
wife Tiwa Savage and also the claims that you’ve been violently attacking her
at home.
And again,
guess what? You won’t be here to testify whether the so many things that will
be said about you when you are gone, are true or false. Memories of you will go
*fingers clicking* in a flash just
like that. If according to you, she had ‘100% insecurity’ when you met her, who
do you think will be called ‘insecured’ when you take your life?
Before I
let go on this, I need clarification on a part of the Instagram posts where Tee
Billz allegedly wrote “to you Mr. Ibrahim
Olatunji Balogun Snr….I tried my best not to be like you but instead of
focusing on being a better person, I was worried about not wanting to be like
you. I reached out and cry to you as my father but all you care about is
yourself and your money… I ended up having kids like you by multiple women and
my first marriage and only marriage didn’t make it to 2years just like the one
you had with my mum. Why the f**k did God Make you my father”.
When I
read that, I got a bit more confused. Nevertheless, it shows there is more to
this Tiwa and Tee Billz marriage ‘wahala’ than meets the eye. Apparently, from
all indications, Tee Billz is not only bitter with Tiwa Savage and the
allegations of her infidelity with Don Jazzy, Tu Face, Dr. Sid and the rest of
the ‘accused’, he is also bitter towards his father. Hmmm! Until we get the
rest of the story, let’s just keep our fingers crossed and not take part in any
‘blame game’ yet.
My candid
advice, “Tiwa and Tee Billz, sort yourselves out in your closet. Every marriage
has issues, how you handle yours is up to you. Think more about the Good times together, maybe that would help".
Husband of songstress,
Tiwa Savage, Mr. Tunji Balogun a.k.a Tee Billz on Thursday posted
several posts on Instagram, alleging that he’s contemplating between
committing suicide or ending his his marriage to the talented singer.
tiwaa
In the past couple of years, Tee Billz, who manages Tiwa Savage, has
been accused of domestic violence – but both parties have never spoken
on the matter.
At some point, it was rumoured that Tee Billz was intimidated by the
fame and success of the singer, hence his resorting to inflicting
physical pains on her.
Again, this claim has never been confirmed.
See some of his posts
teebillz teebillz3 teebillz2 teebillz5
Read more at: http://www.vanguardngr.com/2016/04/tiwa-savages-hubby-threatens-to-commit-suicide-over-wifes-alleged-infidelity/
Husband of songstress,
Tiwa Savage, Mr. Tunji Balogun a.k.a Tee Billz on Thursday posted
several posts on Instagram, alleging that he’s contemplating between
committing suicide or ending his his marriage to the talented singer.
tiwaa
In the past couple of years, Tee Billz, who manages Tiwa Savage, has
been accused of domestic violence – but both parties have never spoken
on the matter.
At some point, it was rumoured that Tee Billz was intimidated by the
fame and success of the singer, hence his resorting to inflicting
physical pains on her.
Again, this claim has never been confirmed.
See some of his posts
teebillz teebillz3 teebillz2 teebillz5
Read more at: http://www.vanguardngr.com/2016/04/tiwa-savages-hubby-threatens-to-commit-suicide-over-wifes-alleged-infidelity/
Husband of songstress,
Tiwa Savage, Mr. Tunji Balogun a.k.a Tee Billz on Thursday posted
several posts on Instagram, alleging that he’s contemplating between
committing suicide or ending his his marriage to the talented singer.
tiwaa
In the past couple of years, Tee Billz, who manages Tiwa Savage, has
been accused of domestic violence – but both parties have never spoken
on the matter.
At some point, it was rumoured that Tee Billz was intimidated by the
fame and success of the singer, hence his resorting to inflicting
physical pains on her.
Again, this claim has never been confirmed.
See some of his posts
teebillz teebillz3 teebillz2 teebillz5
Read more at: http://www.vanguardngr.com/2016/04/tiwa-savages-hubby-threatens-to-commit-suicide-over-wifes-alleged-infidelity/
Also,
I’m sure many of us never anticipated the shock we got when sweet little Hannah
Montana blew up to become the hyper-sexualized, Miley Cyrus who has gained wide
‘wild’ followership by many of her likes even as many parents have refrained
their kids from watching her videos as a singer and would rather make their
wards stick with the old looks of Miley by making them watch the ‘old’ Hannah
Montana as against the new one in Miley Cyrus.
